<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[The Nourished Leader™]]></title><description><![CDATA[The Nourished Leader™ is self-leadership for high-performing women who want to lead their lives without depletion- by reclaiming capacity, clarity, and courage.]]></description><link>https://www.thenourishedleader.com</link><image><url>https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Ar7j!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F117c5237-cc83-4f75-ad57-04e4537b24fc_1080x1080.png</url><title>The Nourished Leader™</title><link>https://www.thenourishedleader.com</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2026 02:55:20 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.thenourishedleader.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[Natalie R Legrand]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[nourishedleadership@substack.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[nourishedleadership@substack.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[Galanthus International]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[Galanthus International]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[nourishedleadership@substack.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[nourishedleadership@substack.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[Galanthus International]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[The Most Dangerous Sentence in Leadership: “I’m Certain.”]]></title><description><![CDATA[Why women navigating complex lives must learn to move forward without perfect answers]]></description><link>https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/the-most-dangerous-sentence-in-leadership</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/the-most-dangerous-sentence-in-leadership</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Natalie R Legrand]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2026 19:29:38 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!BeTT!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fea5dc5fb-0e43-41ad-8639-5abca3da1160_1024x1536.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There&#8217;s a fascinating pattern researchers and leadership thinkers have noticed.</p><p>People who have lived through complex, uncontrollable conditions&#8212;serious illness, caregiving, or long-term uncertainty&#8212;often develop a different relationship with certainty and judgment than those whose lives have been more predictable.</p><p>I recognize that pattern because of my experience living with sickle cell disease.</p><p>When I went through my journey of sickle retinopathy that ultimately left me without vision in my left eye, the moments that stayed with me most were the 1:1 conversations I had with my eye doctor toward the end of the process.</p><p>At the beginning, the odds were in my favor. There was an 80% chance I would not lose my eye. But over the course of a year and a half, those odds slowly collapsed until we were facing a very different reality.</p><p>Even sitting in the room with the expert&#8212;the person with the most knowledge about what was happening&#8212; at the time the outcome was uncertain AND unknowable. </p><p>Here&#8217;s what I realized: </p><p>Our early leadership experiences  tends to focus on proving knowledge, asserting judgment, and solving problems quickly.</p><p style="text-align: center;"><strong>But later our leadership MUST become more comfortable with our capacity to embrace uncertainty and navigate ambiguity - including holding multiple truths at once.</strong></p><div><hr></div><h3>Some situations cannot be solved with certainty.</h3><p>They can only be navigated.</p><p>And experiences like illness, caregiving, or long periods of uncertainty tend to develop three leadership capacities that many people never learn any other way.</p><p><strong>First, you recognize the limits of control.</strong> When you live with something like a complex or unpredictable illness, you quickly learn that information does not equal control. Expertise does not eliminate uncertainty. And decisions often involve trade-offs without clear answers. </p><p><strong>Do: </strong>Practice empathy by softening the impulse to force certainty in other people&#8217;s decisions.</p><p><strong>Second, you become more attuned to invisible realities. </strong>People living with chronic conditions constantly carry realities that others cannot see.</p><p>Pain. Fatigue. Risk calculations.</p><p><strong>Do: </strong>Learn that someone&#8217;s reasoning may make perfect sense inside their reality&#8212;even if it looks irrational from the outside. This builds a muscle most leadership programs try to teach but rarely achieve:</p><p>Epistemic humility &#8212; the recognition that your perspective is incomplete.</p><p><strong>And third, you begin to understand that hope itself can become a legitimate strategy.</strong></p><p>In environments of high uncertainty, hope is not na&#239;ve. It becomes a functional resource. Psychologists studying chronic illness and resilience often find that hope does something certainty cannot. It helps people:</p><ul><li><p>adhere to treatment longer.</p></li><li><p>maintain a stable sense of self.</p></li><li><p>stay oriented toward the future.</p></li></ul><p>Hope allows people to keep participating in life despite uncertainty. And because of that, the practices that sustain hope begin to matter more.</p><ul><li><p>Small rituals.</p></li><li><p>Daily routines.</p></li><li><p>Moments of faith.</p></li><li><p>Even a little mysticism. ( My personal favorite!)</p></li></ul><p>From the outside, these practices can look irrational. But inside uncertainty, they are often what allow people to keep moving forward.</p><p>In that sense, hope isn&#8217;t wishful thinking. It becomes a strategy for survival.</p><p>These capacities change how you make decisions. They change how you interpret other people&#8217;s choices. </p><p>Because once you have lived inside &#8220;true&#8221; uncertainty, something becomes clear.</p><p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Insisting on certainty in complex situations is dangerous.</strong></p><p>It leads to premature decisions. It minimizes context. It produces conclusions that are too neat for the reality in front of us. And it silences that which  might have led to better outcomes.</p><p>For women in particular, this tension shows up in a very personal way.</p><h3>1. It makes us abandon our own complexity</h3><p>Many women are living inside <strong>multiple truths at the same time</strong>:</p><ul><li><p>career ambition and caregiving</p></li><li><p>financial responsibility and health limits</p></li><li><p>leadership expectations and emotional labor</p></li><li><p>competence and uncertainty</p></li></ul><p>We the often force ourselves into <strong>simpler narratives</strong> than our lives actually allow.</p><h3>2. It traps us in over-proving</h3><p>I see more and more  women chasing more credentials, more proof, more preparation.</p><p>That impulse often comes from the belief that:</p><blockquote><p><em>If I just know enough, I&#8217;ll finally be right.</em></p></blockquote><p>But real leadership rarely offers that moment of perfect certainty. Without the capacity for ambiguity, women can get stuck in perpetual proving instead of stepping into authority.</p><h3>3. It shortens our thinking</h3><p>When we insist on being certain, we rush toward answers. When we insist on being right, we rush toward answers.</p><p>But complex lives require something different.</p><p>They require the ability to sit with the situation long enough for better understanding to <strong>emerge</strong>.</p><p>In sum: Developing the capacity to hold ambiguity allows us to:</p><ul><li><p>make decisions without perfect certainty</p></li><li><p>stop forcing ourselves into impossible standards</p></li><li><p>move forward without needing every answer first</p></li></ul><p>It gives us <strong>room to lead our lives honestly</strong>.</p><p>My experience with illness taught me long ago that certainty is often an illusion and that leadership maturity is not about eliminating uncertainty.</p><p style="text-align: center;"><strong>It&#8217;s about developing the capacity to move forward without it.</strong></p><p>This is always what led me into executive coaching and advisory work.</p><p>Because the self-leadership capacities required in complex situations&#8212;recognizing the limits of control, seeing invisible realities, and navigating ambiguity without forcing certainty&#8212;are rarely developed through credentials or traditional leadership training.</p><p>They are developed through disciplined reflection, rigorous thinking, and conversations that allow leaders to see themselves and their  situations more clearly.</p><p>As the saying goes, you can&#8217;t read the label from inside the bottle.</p><p>If you&#8217;re a woman leader navigating health challenges, transition, and the pressure of performing in high-level roles, feel free to reach out.</p><p>I have two spots open in April for one-on-one executive coaching.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" 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Legrand<br>Owner, The Nourished Leader&#8482;</p><div><hr></div><h2><strong>What&#8217;s Happening</strong></h2><p><strong>Thursday Masterclass | April 16 | 4:00&#8211;5:30 PM EST</strong></p><p>For Financial Literacy Month, I&#8217;m sharing my $6,000 - less than 20hrs a week <strong>90-day Uber experiment in Charlotte</strong> and what it revealed about bridge income, professional identity, and financial agency during career transitions. Bonus: I&#8217;ll also share the exact strategy for making money with Uber in Charlotte, NC.</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-90day-6000-less-than-20hrs-per-week-uber-experiment-tickets-1987362945067?utm-campaign=social&amp;utm-content=attendeeshare&amp;utm-medium=discovery&amp;utm-term=listing&amp;utm-source=cp&amp;aff=ebdsshcopyurl">Reserve your seat</a></p><div><hr></div><p><strong>Women, Money &amp; Self-Trust</strong><br><em>A Financial Strategy Clinic</em></p><p>&#128205; Highland Creek Golf Course<br>&#128467; Monday, May 4<br>&#9200; 10:30 AM<br>&#127869; Lunch provided</p><p>Register here: <a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1986856244512?aff=oddtdtcreator">Women, Money, &amp; Self-Trust</a></p><p style="text-align: center;"></p><p style="text-align: center;"></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Leadership Skill No One Teaches: Knowing When to Shut Up]]></title><description><![CDATA[Why great leadership sometimes requires withholding judgment instead of asserting it.]]></description><link>https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/the-leadership-skill-no-one-teaches</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/the-leadership-skill-no-one-teaches</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Natalie R Legrand]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2026 22:16:09 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!BBKI!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F536d9849-06ec-4ed4-9a2b-1cfbcab57223_1024x1536.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>One of the most damaging habits in leadership is the need to prove you&#8217;re right.</strong></p><p>Recently, a woman shared with me a series of decisions she had made about her health &#8212; including a significant financial investment she believed would improve it.</p><p>As she spoke, I recognized the pattern immediately. I understood the mechanics behind how decisions like this are often influenced, and I felt the urge to diagnose the flaw in the decision and explain why it didn&#8217;t make sense.</p><p>Instead, I said to myself, <strong>&#8220;Natalie, shut up.&#8221;</strong></p><p>And I got curious. I asked her how she came to make the decision.</p><p>As she told the story, the details began to unfold. As she explained it to me, her reasoning was simple and deeply personal.</p><p>She is living with a complex, unpredictable illness. Something I&#8217;m VERY familiar with. And the decision she made wasn&#8217;t just about money or logic &#8212; it was about hope.</p><p>When you live with a condition like that, hope isn&#8217;t a small thing.</p><p>Hope shapes how someone cares for themselves. Hope can influence a persons behavior. Create better habits. Hope can change how they see their future. Sometimes, hope is the <strong>only</strong> strategy a person feels they have left. And most importantly - her decision was paying off because -  </p><p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Her belief and her behaviors were in alignment. </strong></p><p>In that moment, I realized something:</p><p>Correcting her would have been easy. </p><p style="text-align: center;"><strong>But doing so would only serve my need to be right.</strong></p><p>The need to be right is one of the biggest blind spots in our leadership today.</p><p>It shows up when we:</p><ul><li><p>feel the urge to correct someone</p></li><li><p>grow impatient with their reasoning</p></li><li><p>start preparing our counterargument before they finish speaking</p></li></ul><p>To be fair -early in our careers we develop expertise - and that sharpens our judgment. </p><p>But sometimes that same expertise causes us to filter everything through what we know or what we THINK we know.</p><p>And sometimes the real discipline is knowing when <strong>not</strong> to assert it.</p><div 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stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><p></p><div class="pullquote"><p><strong>Leadership isn&#8217;t always about better judgment.<br>Sometimes it&#8217;s about withholding it.</strong></p></div><div><hr></div><p><strong>Thank you for reading The Nourished Leader&#8482;.</strong></p><p>The Nourished Leader&#8482; develops women leaders who rise in uncertainty, command ambiguity, and transform complexity into the power, presence, and position required to lead.</p><p>&#8212; Natalie R. Legrand<br>Owner, The Nourished Leader&#8482;</p><div><hr></div><h2>What&#8217;s Happening</h2><p><strong>Tuesday Masterclass | April 14 | 4:00&#8211;5:30 PM EST</strong></p><p>For Financial Literacy Month, I&#8217;m sharing my $6,000 - less than 20hrs a week <strong>90-day Uber experiment in Charlotte</strong> and what it revealed about bridge income, professional identity, and financial agency during career transitions. Bonus: I&#8217;ll also share the exact strategy for making money with Uber in Charlotte, NC. </p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-90day-6000-less-than-20hrs-per-week-uber-experiment-tickets-1987358453633?aff=oddtdtcreator">Reserve your seat</a></p><div><hr></div><p><strong>Women, Money &amp; Self-Trust</strong><br><em>A Financial Strategy Clinic</em></p><p>&#128205; Highland Creek Golf Course<br>&#128467; Monday, May 4<br>&#9200; 10:30 AM<br>&#127869; Lunch provided</p><p>Register here: <a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1986856244512?aff=oddtdtcreator">Women, Money, &amp; Self-Trust</a><br></p><div><hr></div><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[My Financial System Cannot Tolerate My Humanity]]></title><description><![CDATA[Why Women&#8212;Especially Those Living with Chronic Illness&#8212;Must Design Financial Systems That Respect Their Capacity]]></description><link>https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/my-financial-system-cannot-tolerate</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/my-financial-system-cannot-tolerate</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Natalie R Legrand]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2026 08:57:42 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!W8G3!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8c15d0e0-624c-4e27-9e62-bdd609765887_1024x1536.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is a financial reality many women quietly navigate but rarely discuss.</p><p>Our financial systems assume constant capacity.</p><p>Our bodies do not operate that way.</p><p>Across a month, many women experience shifts in energy, focus, and cognitive capacity tied to hormonal rhythms. For women living with chronic illness, those fluctuations can be even more pronounced and less predictable.</p><p>Yet the systems that govern work and money&#8212;whether in corporate environments or self-employment&#8212;are built on a different assumption: steady output.</p><p>Consistent productivity.<br>Consistent availability.<br>Consistent performance.</p><p>When a woman&#8217;s capacity fluctuates, the tension becomes visible.</p><p>If income depends directly on output, a low-capacity period can quickly become a financial concern. Not because the individual lacks discipline or capability, but because the system she operates within was never designed to accommodate fluctuation.</p><p>For women managing chronic illness, this tension becomes even more pronounced.</p><p>Chronic conditions like sickle cell disease introduce a level of unpredictability to physical capacity that most financial structures simply do not address. There are periods where energy, focus, and physical strength are not available in the same way they may be at other times.</p><p>Yet financial expectations rarely- if at all - adjust to reflect that reality.</p><p>Most of us are taught how to earn money, save money, and invest money.</p><p>Very few of us are taught how to design our financial lives around the bodies we actually live in.</p><p>Recently, I realized something about my own life.</p><p>I have always aligned my life with my cycles and my capacity. I learned early how to listen to my body and adjust when necessary. Living with sickle cell disease required that awareness.</p><p>But there was one area of my life I never designed with that same awareness in mind.</p><p>My finances.</p><p>For most of my career, I operated within systems where money functioned almost like an event. Income arrived through structures that absorbed some of the variability in my capacity. I never had to confront the question directly.</p><p>But when those structures changed, I was forced to ask a question I had never seriously considered before:</p><p>What does my chronic illness mean for my financial life?</p><p>Despite living with sickle cell disease, despite understanding the rhythms and limitations of my own body, I had never intentionally considered what those realities should mean for my financial life.</p><p>That realization has led me to a series of questions I believe more women should begin asking.</p><p>Not just women living with chronic illness, but women navigating hormonal cycles, caregiving responsibilities, and the many realities that shape capacity over time.</p><p>If our bodies operate in rhythms and fluctuations, then our financial thinking should account for that.</p><p>We should be asking different questions.</p><p>What financial structures protect periods of low capacity?<br>What kinds of income models allow for fluctuation without financial collapse?<br>How do we build buffers that acknowledge biological reality rather than pretending it does not exist?</p><p>These are not questions most financial conversations address.</p><p>But they should.</p><p>Because self-leadership&#8212;especially for women&#8212;requires us to design lives that work with our humanity rather than constantly overriding it.</p><p>So the question I am now exploring is a simple one:</p><p><strong>What does money look like when you design around the body you actually have?</strong></p><p>It is a question more women should be asking&#8212;especially those navigating chronic illness, hormonal rhythms, caregiving responsibilities, and the many realities that shape our capacity over time.</p><p>Because if our financial systems ignore those realities, the result is predictable: women overriding their bodies in order to survive inside systems that were never designed with them in mind.</p><p>I don&#8217;t believe the answer is to override our humanity.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!W8G3!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8c15d0e0-624c-4e27-9e62-bdd609765887_1024x1536.png" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!W8G3!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8c15d0e0-624c-4e27-9e62-bdd609765887_1024x1536.png 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!W8G3!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8c15d0e0-624c-4e27-9e62-bdd609765887_1024x1536.png 848w, 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class="pencraft pc-display-flex pc-gap-8 pc-reset"><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container restack-image"><svg role="img" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="var(--color-fg-primary)" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><g><title></title><path d="M2.53001 7.81595C3.49179 4.73911 6.43281 2.5 9.91173 2.5C13.1684 2.5 15.9537 4.46214 17.0852 7.23684L17.6179 8.67647M17.6179 8.67647L18.5002 4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" 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When their body inevitably pushes back &#8212; through illness, fatigue, or cycles &#8212; it can feel like personal failure instead of a design problem.</p><p>That erodes <strong>self-trust</strong>.</p><blockquote><p><strong>Self-trust with money begins when we stop pretending our bodies don&#8217;t matter</strong></p></blockquote><div><hr></div><p>The Nourished Leader is partnering with the James Black Foundation  on May 4th </p><p><strong>Women, Money &amp; Self-Trust</strong>, where we&#8217;ll explore questions like:</p><p>&#8226; How do we see our financial reality clearly without shame?<br>&#8226; How do we make money decisions we can trust ourselves to stand behind?<br>&#8226; What does financial self-trust actually look like for women navigating real-life capacity constraints?</p><p>If this article resonated with you, I hope you&#8217;ll join me.</p><p><strong><a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/women-money-and-self-trust-tickets-1986856244512?utm-campaign=social&amp;utm-content=attendeeshare&amp;utm-medium=discovery&amp;utm-term=listing&amp;utm-source=cp&amp;aff=ebdsshcopyurl">Women, Money &amp; Self-Trust</a></strong><br>Highland Creek Golf Club &#8212; Charlotte<br>Monday, May 4 | 10:30 AM &#8211; 12:30 PM</p><p>Lunch will be provided, and the conversation will be practical, honest, and grounded in the realities many women are navigating right now.</p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Most Dangerous Thing Women Say About Money]]></title><description><![CDATA[Why &#8220;I wish I started earlier&#8221; quietly steals our financial agency.]]></description><link>https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/the-most-dangerous-thing-women-say</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/the-most-dangerous-thing-women-say</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Natalie R Legrand]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2026 16:19:45 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!_f1d!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F00ef0e0c-309f-4748-85d0-9a6056c80aa6_1121x1402.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="pullquote"><p>In honor of National Financial Literacy Month, The Nourished Leader is partnering with the <strong>James Black Foundation</strong> to host<a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/women-money-and-self-trust-tickets-1986856244512?utm-campaign=social&amp;utm-content=attendeeshare&amp;utm-medium=discovery&amp;utm-term=listing&amp;utm-source=cp&amp;aff=ebdsshcopyurl"> </a><strong><a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/women-money-and-self-trust-tickets-1986856244512?utm-campaign=social&amp;utm-content=attendeeshare&amp;utm-medium=discovery&amp;utm-term=listing&amp;utm-source=cp&amp;aff=ebdsshcopyurl">Women, Money &amp; Self-Trust</a></strong>, a financial strategy clinic for women on <strong>May 4 at Highland Creek Golf Club</strong>. A portion of proceeds will support the foundation&#8217;s work advancing financial literacy through education and golf. Read to the end for event details &#8212; and for upcoming opportunities to join me live in a series of webinars.</p></div><p>The stupidest thing we say about money is:</p><p><strong>&#8220;I wish I had started earlier.&#8221;</strong></p><p>It sounds wise. But most of the time it <strong>removes agency from the present moment.</strong></p><p>Instead of asking <em>what can I do now</em>, we sit in regret about a version of ourselves who supposedly should have known better.</p><div><hr></div><p><strong>Why This Shows Up So Much With Women and Money</strong></p><p>When women talk about finances, the first sentence is often:</p><ul><li><p><em>&#8220;I wish I had started investing earlier.&#8221;</em></p></li><li><p><em>&#8220;If I knew then what I know now&#8230;&#8221;</em></p></li><li><p><em>&#8220;I&#8217;m so behind.&#8221;</em></p></li></ul><p>But those sentences quietly assume something that isn&#8217;t true:</p><p><strong>That the only thing missing was information.</strong></p><p>And that&#8217;s rarely the real story. Most women didn&#8217;t delay because they were stupid.</p><p>They delayed because of things like:</p><ul><li><p>survival</p></li><li><p>caregiving</p></li><li><p>unequal pay</p></li><li><p>lack of financial models</p></li><li><p>fear of making a mistake</p></li><li><p>being told money wasn&#8217;t their domain</p></li><li><p>prioritizing everyone else first</p></li></ul><p>So when we reduce all of that to <strong>&#8220;I should have started earlier,&#8221;</strong> we flatten the complexity of our lives into a single regret.</p><p>And regret is not a strategy.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!_f1d!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F00ef0e0c-309f-4748-85d0-9a6056c80aa6_1121x1402.png" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" 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But literacy is not the same thing as <strong>financial agency</strong>.</p><p>Financial literacy means:</p><ul><li><p>you understand interest</p></li><li><p>you know what investing is</p></li><li><p>you know what a retirement account is</p></li></ul><p>Financial agency means:</p><ul><li><p>you make decisions</p></li><li><p>you act</p></li><li><p>you take ownership of your financial life <strong>from this moment forward</strong></p></li></ul><p>You can be financially literate and still paralyzed. But once agency enters the room, everything changes.</p><div><hr></div><p><strong>The Better Question</strong></p><p>Instead of asking: <strong>&#8220;Why didn&#8217;t I start earlier?&#8221;</strong></p><p>Ask: <strong>&#8220;What do I understand now that I didn&#8217;t understand then?&#8221;</strong></p><p>And then an even better question:</p><p><strong>&#8220;What is the smallest action I can take with that understanding today?&#8221;</strong></p><p>Because principles are timeless. Compounding works whether you start at 22 or 52.</p><p>Decision-making works whether you learned it yesterday or ten years ago.</p><p>What matters is not when you should have started. What matters is when you begin acting with the clarity you have now<strong>.</strong></p><div><hr></div><p>A Nourished Leader doesn&#8217;t spend her energy rewriting the past.</p><p>She gets curious.</p><p>She asks:</p><ul><li><p>What do I see now?</p></li><li><p>What do I understand now?</p></li><li><p>What is within my control now?</p></li></ul><p>And then she moves.</p><div><hr></div><p>The most powerful financial decision you can make isn&#8217;t wishing you started earlier.</p><p>It&#8217;s deciding that <strong>today counts.</strong></p><div><hr></div><p>April is Financial Literacy Month, and here at The Nourished Leader &#8482; we are focusing on all thing&#8217;s money &#8211; Financial Capacity, Financial Clarity and Financial Courage.</p><p>To mark the occasion, <strong>The Nourished Leader is partnering with the James Black Foundation</strong> to host a conversation for women navigating financial decisions in uncertain times.</p><div 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<strong>May 4, 2026</strong><br>&#9200; <strong>10:30AM-12:30 PM</strong><br>&#128205; <strong>Highland Creek Golf Club</strong></p><div><hr></div><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!e0iM!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F069fda25-e2d1-43b0-93d0-01ef965ae632_1445x383.png" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!e0iM!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F069fda25-e2d1-43b0-93d0-01ef965ae632_1445x383.png 424w, 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stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><p></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[What the Market Looks Like from the Driver’s Seat]]></title><description><![CDATA[Financial Literacy, One Ride at a Time]]></description><link>https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/what-the-market-looks-like-from-the</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/what-the-market-looks-like-from-the</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Natalie R Legrand]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2026 14:19:04 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!6qnW!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fec8f1905-69a5-4c8e-ade6-975530560852_1148x1368.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>April is National Financial Literacy Month.</p><p>It&#8217;s dedicated to raising awareness about the importance of financial education and developing healthy money management skills.<br><br>For the last 90 days, I&#8217;ve been running a personal experiment. I&#8217;ve been driving for Uber. Working fewer than 20 hours a week, I&#8217;ve made a little over $6,000. <br><br>And I did in The Nourished Leader way. <br><br>But what&#8217;s been most interesting about this experience hasn&#8217;t just been the income. It&#8217;s been the lessons.<br><br>Every shift has been a real-time classroom in:<br>- Supply and demand<br>- Market behavior<br>- Behavioral economics<br>- Timing of capital<br>- Emotional regulation under financial pressure<br>- Micro-market analysis<br><br>You start to see patterns. You learn when to move, when to wait, and when to call it a day.<br><br>Money moves in rhythms.<br>Markets move in patterns.<br>And people move emotionally.<br><br>Uber just happens to be one of the clearest places to watch all three happen at once.<br><br>Heres is what i know - the best financial education doesn&#8217;t come from theory.<br>It comes from watching how money actually moves in the world.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!6qnW!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fec8f1905-69a5-4c8e-ade6-975530560852_1148x1368.png" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" 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Legrand &#8212; leadership advisor, keynote speaker, and creator of <em>The Nourished Leader&#8482;</em>.</p><p>Here I share reflections and leadership lessons I&#8217;m learning in real time &#8212; about clarity, capacity, money, decision-making, and what it means to lead with courage in uncertain seasons.</p><p>If this resonates with you, subscribe and follow along.</p><p>&#8212; Natalie</p><p></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Power Was Never in the Word]]></title><description><![CDATA[Before the word there was meaning]]></description><link>https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/the-power-was-never-in-the-word</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/the-power-was-never-in-the-word</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Natalie R Legrand]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 20 Mar 2026 20:40:53 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!dNWq!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ffedf2954-2d68-43f1-9f95-305bbf0bb425_1024x1536.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="pullquote"><p>&#8220;We often tell our students the future is in your hands, but I think the future is actually in your mouth&#8221; &#8211; Ocean Vuong (Vietnamese-American poet and essayist)</p></div><p>We are often told that words have power. We are also told that words create. There have been times when I&#8217;ve been &#8216;reprimanded&#8217; for saying something &#8216;negative&#8217;.</p><p>It bugged me.</p><p>In the last year or so, I have become more conscious with my words&#8212;not out of fear that I will &#8216;manifest&#8217; something I don&#8217;t desire, but because I realized how much our understanding of words is&#8230; problematic. It&#8217;s been an eye-opening experience.</p><p>It&#8217;s not the words that have power&#8212;it&#8217;s the meaning we inherited around the word- through family, culture, and experiences. That&#8217;s what is activated in our bodies. That is what we respond to.</p><p>When I coached C-suite teams abroad, the expectation was that all members spoke in English for the sake of the facilitators. It kind of annoyed me. Clearly, these teams communicate in their native languages when we weren&#8217;t around, and the expectation to do &#8216;deep work&#8217; in an acquired language made absolutely no sense to me.</p><p>Think about it&#8212;you&#8217;re being asked to find meaning, make meaning, and connect deeply in the language you mostly use to get work done.</p><p>There was one activity in particular where we&#8217;d give them a set of words and ask them to assign value judgments and sort them accordingly. Then I&#8217;d challenge their choices because I know that everyone&#8217;s understanding of a word is not the same.</p><p>And every single time, there were words where multiple members had completely different interpretations.</p><p>I always say&#8212;forget the word. What matters our ability to come up with a shared meaning.</p><p>Humans are meaning-making species first&#8212;consciously or unconsciously. The impact a word has is dependent on the meaning assigned by the individual. Often, that meaning is inherited&#8212;through family, culture, community. But more importantly, it is our lived experience with the word that cements it in our psyche.</p><p>As a black woman in midlife, going through what I like to call the &#8216;second puberty,&#8217; I believe we are challenged to revisit what words mean to us. It is an opportunity to question, challenge, and most importantly&#8212;reclaim our authority over meaning and ultimately its impact. </p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!dNWq!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ffedf2954-2d68-43f1-9f95-305bbf0bb425_1024x1536.png" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!dNWq!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ffedf2954-2d68-43f1-9f95-305bbf0bb425_1024x1536.png 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!dNWq!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ffedf2954-2d68-43f1-9f95-305bbf0bb425_1024x1536.png 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!dNWq!,w_1272,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ffedf2954-2d68-43f1-9f95-305bbf0bb425_1024x1536.png 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!dNWq!,w_1456,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ffedf2954-2d68-43f1-9f95-305bbf0bb425_1024x1536.png 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!dNWq!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ffedf2954-2d68-43f1-9f95-305bbf0bb425_1024x1536.png" width="1024" height="1536" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/fedf2954-2d68-43f1-9f95-305bbf0bb425_1024x1536.png&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:1536,&quot;width&quot;:1024,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:null,&quot;bytes&quot;:2684437,&quot;alt&quot;:null,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;image/png&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:null,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:true,&quot;topImage&quot;:false,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:&quot;https://www.thenourishedleader.com/i/191618557?img=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ffedf2954-2d68-43f1-9f95-305bbf0bb425_1024x1536.png&quot;,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}" class="sizing-normal" alt="" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!dNWq!,w_424,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ffedf2954-2d68-43f1-9f95-305bbf0bb425_1024x1536.png 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!dNWq!,w_848,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ffedf2954-2d68-43f1-9f95-305bbf0bb425_1024x1536.png 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!dNWq!,w_1272,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ffedf2954-2d68-43f1-9f95-305bbf0bb425_1024x1536.png 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!dNWq!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ffedf2954-2d68-43f1-9f95-305bbf0bb425_1024x1536.png 1456w" sizes="100vw" loading="lazy"></picture><div class="image-link-expand"><div class="pencraft pc-display-flex pc-gap-8 pc-reset"><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container restack-image"><svg role="img" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="var(--color-fg-primary)" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><g><title></title><path d="M2.53001 7.81595C3.49179 4.73911 6.43281 2.5 9.91173 2.5C13.1684 2.5 15.9537 4.46214 17.0852 7.23684L17.6179 8.67647M17.6179 8.67647L18.5002 4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><p></p><p>The discovery has been mind blowing - take for example the word &#8216;urgency&#8217;. It physically triggers me. I associate it with rushing and I HATE being rushed. The more you rush me - well lets just say the more like a donkey I behave. Its somatic. </p><p>The trouble is not with the word, or even its definition, its with how it translates in my body. This needs attention now &#8594; I must abandon myself and move fast. Its distortion. So I&#8217;ve created a new relationship with the word - choosing to understand it as a signal for priority, or a call for grounded decision making in the moment. </p><p>Bottom line:<br>The power of a word is in its meaning.<br>Better yet&#8212;the power of a word is in our relationship to that word.</p><p>The &#8220;second puberty&#8221; is the perfect opportunity to consciously re-establish a relationship with the words that we use. The dramaticness of the shift can reveal so much about the relationships we have in our lives- but more importantly the relationship we have with our self. </p><p>And because of that, we must challenge the relationship we have with words&#8212;because from that relationship, our evolved identity begins to emerge.</p><p>When we reclaim the meaning of our words, we become aligned.</p><p>And from that alignment&#8212;we create our futures.</p><p>In the season of the snowdrop (Galanthus), that internal heat that melts the snow around us is power.</p><p>The meaning&#8212;deeper yet, the relationship&#8212;we have with words is -  power.</p><div><hr></div><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zf5p!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F7152874f-de6b-46d6-a06f-dd109dd63d3b_321x194.png" 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loading="lazy"></picture><div></div></div></a></figure></div><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[To Be or Not To Be: Why I Stopped Writing To-Do Lists]]></title><description><![CDATA[Self-leadership begins the moment we stop organizing our lives around what needs to be done and start anchoring our days in who we choose to be.]]></description><link>https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/to-be-or-not-to-be-why-i-stopped</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/to-be-or-not-to-be-why-i-stopped</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Natalie R Legrand]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2026 11:02:53 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!_CTy!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2d4b0a6c-2aba-421a-bc5d-78f35e3f6dc1_1024x1536.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="pullquote"><p>Self-leadership begins the moment we stop organizing our lives around what needs to be done and start anchoring our days in who we choose to be.</p></div><p>I&#8217;ve always had a problem with to-do lists.</p><p>Not because I&#8217;m disorganized. Not because I don&#8217;t believe in productivity. But because, quite literally, I never understood the assignment.</p><p>You see, when someone told me to make a <strong>to-do list</strong>, I assumed the task was to <strong>do the list</strong>.</p><p>So I did. I wrote it. List completed.</p><p>If the job was to <em>create a to-do list</em>, then technically, the moment the list existed&#8230; the task was finished.</p><p>And that&#8217;s exactly how it always felt to me.</p><p>I would write a beautiful list. Organized. Thoughtful. Clear.</p><p>Then something strange would happen.</p><p>My brain would quietly say: &#8220;Well done. You did the list.&#8221; ( It wasn&#8217;t wrong&#8230;)</p><p>And the rest of the day would move on.</p><p>For years I thought something was wrong with me. Everyone around me seemed to live and die by their to-do lists. Entire productivity systems were built around them. People swore by them.</p><p>Meanwhile, I felt like the moment I wrote the list. Task complete.</p><p><strong>Side Bar:</strong> It turns out there&#8217;s actually a reason for this. Our brains release a small sense of accomplishment when we <strong>define a task</strong>, not just when we finish it. The act of organizing the work can trick the brain into feeling like progress has already occurred. Go figure!</p><p>But the deeper realization I had recently wasn&#8217;t about productivity at all.</p><p>The work of a nourished leader is not about becoming more productive. It&#8217;s about becoming more <strong>self-led</strong>. And self-leadership doesn&#8217;t start with what you do.</p><p>It starts with who you choose to be. </p><p>Most people structure their lives around <strong>to-do lists</strong>.</p><p>But I&#8217;ve started experimenting with something different: A <strong>to-be list</strong>.</p><p>Instead of asking: &#8220;What do I need to get done today?&#8221; I start by asking: &#8220;Who do I need to be today?&#8221;</p><p>Once those identities are clear, the actions follow naturally.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Mic Drop: The doing <strong>emerges</strong> from the being.</p><p>And here&#8217;s the surprising part:</p><p style="text-align: center;">When you start with <strong>being</strong>, more meaningful things <em>actually</em> get done.</p><p>Not because you forced productivity, but because your actions are aligned with identity.</p><h3><strong>The Issue with To Do Lists:</strong></h3><p>To-do lists reinforce what I now call <strong>task identity</strong>.</p><p>Task identity is the belief that your value&#8212;and even your identity&#8212;comes from completing tasks.</p><p>&#183; If I accomplish this, then I am responsible.</p><p>&#183; If I finish that, then I am productive.</p><p>&#183; If the list is done, then I am successful.</p><p>Sound familiar? </p><p>The problem is that task identity traps people&#8212;especially women&#8212;in an endless cycle of responsibilities, checklists, and obligations that keep life moving but rarely move <strong>us</strong> forward.</p><h3><strong>What Happens When You Live from Task Identity</strong></h3><p>When your life is organized around <strong>doing instead of being</strong>, you often end up playing one of three characters.</p><p><strong>The Victim</strong></p><p>This is the moment when the list overwhelms you. You feel:</p><ul><li><p>buried under responsibilities</p></li><li><p>resentful about how much is on your plate</p></li><li><p>exhausted from constantly reacting</p></li></ul><p>The inner dialogue sounds like: &#8220;Why does everything fall on me?&#8221;</p><p><strong>The Hero</strong></p><p>So you push harder. You step in. You fix things. You take responsibility.</p><p>You become the one who:</p><ul><li><p>handles the crisis</p></li><li><p>saves the situation</p></li><li><p>carries the team or the family</p></li></ul><p>The hero gets things done.</p><p>But the hero is also <strong>constantly overextended</strong>.</p><p><strong>The Villain</strong></p><p>Eventually the exhaustion shows up as frustration.</p><p>You snap. You withdraw. You blame someone.</p><p>Not because you are actually a villain &#8212; but because the pressure finally spills over.</p><p>Now the inner dialogue sounds like: &#8220;Why can&#8217;t anyone else handle this?&#8221;</p><p><strong>The Cycle</strong></p><p>The trap is that task identity keeps you <strong>cycling through these three roles</strong>:</p><p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Victim &#8594; Hero &#8594; Villain &#8594; back to Victim.</strong></p><p>All while the list keeps growing.</p><p>The problem isn&#8217;t your capability. It&#8217;s the <strong>starting point</strong>.</p><p>When your day begins with <strong>doing</strong>, you end up reacting to the system. When your day begins with <strong>being</strong>, you start directing your life instead of constantly rescuing it.</p><p>Which makes me think Shakespeare might have been onto something.</p><p>&#8220;To be, or not to be&#8221; wasn&#8217;t really a question about action. It was a question about identity.</p><p>And identity ALWAYS comes first.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!_CTy!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2d4b0a6c-2aba-421a-bc5d-78f35e3f6dc1_1024x1536.png" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!_CTy!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2d4b0a6c-2aba-421a-bc5d-78f35e3f6dc1_1024x1536.png 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!_CTy!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2d4b0a6c-2aba-421a-bc5d-78f35e3f6dc1_1024x1536.png 848w, 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url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!QFWi!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F86fe0d64-00af-4cc2-ac4a-89e7f7cee8a4_1536x1024.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Recently, a friend told me something that caught my attention. She said, almost apologetically, <em>&#8220;I&#8217;m quietly quitting.&#8221;</em> She added that she didn&#8217;t feel like the energetic role model people expected her to be.</p><p>This is a woman with a PhD. Someone who has spent years advocating for justice, speaking out, showing up, and carrying the emotional weight of systems that needed changing. She has always been the one &#8220;on fire&#8221;&#8212;the one people point to as an example of commitment and courage.</p><p>But now she&#8217;s tired.</p><p>And instead of applauding her honesty, the narrative around her&#8212;and around many women like her&#8212;is that quietly quitting is a sign of disengagement.</p><p>I see it differently.</p><p>Quiet quitting is often a <strong>strategic decision</strong>, especially for women who have spent years over-functioning.</p><p>For many of us, the expectations have never been limited to the job description. We take on emotional labor. We fix problems that aren&#8217;t ours to fix. We carry the morale of teams, the integrity of organizations, and sometimes the hopes of entire movements. We do it because we care, because we believe in the work, and because we&#8217;ve been taught that being reliable, strong, and self-sacrificing is part of leadership.</p><p>Eventually, the cost shows up.</p><p>When a woman begins doing only what she agreed to do&#8212;when she stops volunteering for the invisible labor, stops trying to climb every ladder, and stops being the hero in every room&#8212;it gets labeled as quitting.</p><p>But in many cases, it&#8217;s something else entirely.</p><p>It&#8217;s <strong>power returning to its rightful place</strong>.</p><p>Quiet quitting often marks the moment when a woman stops abandoning herself in order to prove her commitment. She begins to set boundaries. She starts honoring her capacity. She withdraws energy from systems that have been sustained by her overextension.</p><p>That isn&#8217;t disengagement. It&#8217;s recalibration.</p><p>In fact, it may be the first time she is truly choosing herself.</p><p>There&#8217;s a deeper truth here that we don&#8217;t talk about enough: many high-capacity women reach a point where the roles they once carried with pride become unsustainable. They are navigating midlife transitions, shifting identities, and the realization that being constantly &#8220;on fire&#8221; is not the same thing as being well.</p><p>When they step back, they often feel shame. They wonder if they&#8217;re losing their drive, losing their edge, or losing the version of themselves that people admired.</p><p>But what if the opposite is happening?</p><p>What if stepping back is not a loss of leadership&#8212;but the beginning of a more sustainable form of it?</p><p>Leadership that is nourished, not depleted.</p><p>Leadership that comes from choice, not obligation.</p><p>Leadership that recognizes that impact does not require self-abandonment.</p><p>If you find yourself quietly quitting right now, consider this: you may not be quitting at all.</p><p>You may simply be <strong>reclaiming your energy</strong>, your boundaries, and your right to choose how you show up in the world.</p><p>And that might be the most strategic decision you make all year.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" 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url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!uPSf!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F66ecf34a-a71d-496f-80d1-0e2f27dd0254_1024x1536.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s Galanthus season!!!! </p><p>My <strong>favorite</strong> time of year.</p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://www.thenourishedleader.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">The Nourished Leader&#8482; is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div><p>Every year around this time &#8212; as we move toward International Women&#8217;s Day on March 8 &#8212; I&#8217;m reminded why <em>The Nourished Leader</em> exists in the first place.</p><p>Years ago, while living in Ukraine, a little girl handed me a delicate white flower for International Women&#8217;s Day.</p><p> <strong>podsnezhnik</strong> &#8212; which translates to - <em>under the snow.</em></p><p>I remember looking at it in disbelief.</p><p><strong>How could anything grow in these conditions?</strong></p><p>Later, I learned something remarkable. The Galanthus (snowdrop) flower doesn&#8217;t wait for spring.</p><p><strong>It creates its own heat</strong>.</p><p>That internal warmth melts the snow around it, allowing it to push through frozen ground long before the season changes.</p><p>That image has stayed with me ever since. It has been part of my brand for over 10yrs! </p><p>Because leadership &#8212; real leadership &#8212; often works the same way.</p><p>We don&#8217;t always get perfect timing.<br>We don&#8217;t always get certainty.<br>We don&#8217;t always get ideal conditions.</p><p>But we move anyway. We create momentum anyway.</p><p>We grow anyway.</p><p>And that&#8217;s what Galanthus season represents to me.</p><p>Not perfection.</p><p><strong>Self-leadership in motion.</strong></p><div><hr></div><p>This year feels especially meaningful.</p><p>I&#8217;m bringing <em>The Nourished Leader</em> back online in a more intentional way &#8212; and over the next couple of weeks, in honor of International Women&#8217;s Day and Women&#8217;s Month, I&#8217;ll be sharing more about:</p><p>&#127793; The Galanthus story and what it means<br>&#127793; The principles of self-leadership I teach<br>&#127793; Conversations with women navigating complexity and change<br>&#127793; The 15 Commitments of a Nourished Leader<br>&#127793; Reflections from this season of growth</p><p>And honestly &#8212; I&#8217;m excited.</p><p>Because Galanthus season isn&#8217;t about waiting until everything is figured out.</p><p>It&#8217;s about choosing to grow while you&#8217;re still in the middle of it.</p><p>So 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To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Happy Thanksgiving!]]></title><link>https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/happy-thanksgiving</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/happy-thanksgiving</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Natalie R Legrand]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2025 01:59:36 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/180139773/ad4c1f438fdb94af93cf3f027bedbb71.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Speaking to the Rock ]]></title><description><![CDATA[What Self-Trust Really Sounds Like]]></description><link>https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/speaking-to-the-rock</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/speaking-to-the-rock</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Natalie R Legrand]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2025 02:55:48 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/ff1477e2-dd57-4c3a-b04a-3eb5a05d9d17_1080x1350.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s been two and a half weeks since <em>The Nourished Leader Summit,</em><br>and I&#8217;ve had to practice what I preach &#8212; <strong>regrounding the self.</strong></p><p>Coming off the energy of that event and walking through a family health crisis right after forced me to slow down, breathe, and remember what I teach about capacity and trust.</p><blockquote><p>How you <em>re-enter</em> life after a major expansion is just as important as how you show up for the event itself.</p></blockquote><p>These past two weeks have reminded me that rhythm is more powerful than routine.<br></p><p>Routine is what I do when I&#8217;m trying to <strong>control</strong> time.<br>Rhythm is what I follow when I&#8217;m choosing to <strong>trust</strong> timing.</p><p>And that&#8217;s what this season is asking of me &#8212; <strong>trust.</strong></p><div><hr></div><h4><strong>The Inner Tension</strong></h4><p>There are days when you feel two parts of yourself pulling in opposite directions.<br>One part longs for peace &#8212; she wants to breathe, rest, and not be asked for more.<br>The other burns for motion &#8212; she&#8217;s ready to build, lead, and make things happen.</p><p>When you rest, the part that craves momentum whispers that you&#8217;re falling behind. When you move, the part that longs for stillness warns that you&#8217;re burning out again.</p><p>You might find yourself standing in the middle of those two winds - the tension of leading while human: the tug between <strong>peace and progress, being and becoming, presence and performance.</strong></p><div><hr></div><h3><strong>The Story That Found Me</strong></h3><p>Lately, I&#8217;ve been thinking about the biblical story of Moses&#8212;a leader navigating the weight of people, promise, and pressure. There&#8217;s a moment where he&#8217;s instructed to speak to the rock so that water might flow, but instead he strikes it in<strong> anger</strong>. The water still comes, but something<strong> </strong>sacred is lost.</p><p>That story lingers because at its core its about- <strong> relationship</strong>. A relationship between the divine and the human, the seen and the unseen. It&#8217;s about <strong>trust</strong>&#8212;whether we trust enough to use our voice instead of our force, to partner with the source, with the self - instead of command and control. </p><p>Here&#8217;s the deal: <br>Every time you blame and shame yourself for not moving faster, or guilt yourself for needing rest, you&#8217;re <strong>striking the rock</strong>.</p><p>Every time you breathe, listen, and trust that what&#8217;s meant for you won&#8217;t pass you&#8212;and stay in compassionate dialogue with yourself instead of judgment&#8212;you&#8217;re <strong>speaking to it</strong>.</p><p>That&#8217;s when flow returns. That&#8217;s when you quietly <strong>reclaim your authority.</strong></p><div><hr></div><h3><strong>When We Speak to the Rock </strong></h3><p>Speaking to the rock is an act of <strong>self-trust.</strong><br>It&#8217;s believing that what&#8217;s within us will flow when we honor it, not punish it.</p><p>As women, we often lead in the tension between peace and progress.<br>We&#8217;re told to hustle &#8212; but also to stay grounded.<br>To dream big &#8212; but not burn out.<br>No wonder we&#8217;re tired.</p><p>The truth is, both parts of us are sacred.<br>One is the <strong>hearth</strong> &#8212; holds warmth, safety, and stillness. The other is the <strong>flame</strong> &#8212; ignites, builds, and carries light into the world.<br></p><p>Together, they make a fire that can sustain, not consume.</p><div><hr></div><h3><strong>Our Practice Now</strong></h3><ol><li><p>When the part of us that longs for peace feels anxious about doing too much, we whisper: <em>&#8220;You are safe enough to move.&#8221;</em></p></li><li><p>When the part of us that pushes for progress fears slowing down, we remind her: <em>&#8220;You are safe enough to rest.&#8221;</em></p></li><li><p>And when we feel the tension between the two &#8212; that tight space where anxiety lives &#8212; we remember that there is always <a href="https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/speaking-and-workshops">The 3rd Option</a> - Trust. </p><p></p><blockquote><p>&#8220;The opposite of anxiety isn&#8217;t calm - it&#8217;s trust.&#8221;- (as shared on the show <em>Brilliant Minds)</em> </p></blockquote><p><br>Trust that both peace and power belong.<br>Trust that movement and stillness can hold hands.<br>Trust that when they do, flow returns. And that&#8217;s enough.</p></li></ol><div><hr></div><h3>&#127807; What&#8217;s Next for <em>The Nourished Leader&#8482;</em></h3><p>We&#8217;re officially back in rhythm. Starting this week, new reflections will publish every <strong>Monday</strong>, followed by <strong>Women to Know Wednesdays</strong>, featuring stories of women leading with capacity, clarity, and courage.</p><p>Tomorrow, I&#8217;ll be sharing an inspiring conversation with <strong><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariahprinceallenspeaker/">Dr. Mariah Prince-Allen</a></strong>, a fellow North Carolina Woman to KNOW 2025 and the <strong>architect of Hormone-Intelligent Leadership</strong>, as we talk all things <strong>menopause </strong>&#8212; a conversation every woman navigating midlife will want to hear.</p><p>Our <strong>From Nourish to Replenish Retreat</strong> is coming up <strong>November 14&#8211;16</strong> &#8212; a weekend away in the mountains devoted to rest, reflection, and renewal. <em>More details on that tomorrow.</em></p><p>If you&#8217;d like to <strong>bring </strong><em><strong>The Nourished Leader&#8482;</strong></em><strong> experience</strong> to your <strong>organization or community</strong>, explore the new <strong><a href="https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/speaking-and-workshops">Speaking &amp; Workshops</a></strong> page to learn how we can work together.</p><p>Thank you for being here. This is the rhythm we&#8217;re rebuilding &#8212; one grounded step, one true act of trust at a time.</p><p>The Future of Leadership is <em>Nourished.</em></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[A Nourished Conversation ]]></title><description><![CDATA[2025 Summit Panelists]]></description><link>https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/a-nourished-conversation</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/a-nourished-conversation</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Natalie R Legrand]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 26 Oct 2025 20:22:22 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!wkzR!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F0a96c910-0479-46cc-bbe0-82ccecc93f25_1200x838.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1>Our Panelists</h1><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" 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Space After the Fire]]></title><description><![CDATA[Part of the Navigating Crisis Series &#8212; How Nourished Leaders Lead Through Uncertainty]]></description><link>https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/the-space-after-the-fire</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/the-space-after-the-fire</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Natalie R Legrand]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2025 00:49:55 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Ar7j!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F117c5237-cc83-4f75-ad57-04e4537b24fc_1080x1080.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="pullquote"><p>The summit is behind me, and I&#8217;ll share its recap  and lessons soon. For now, I&#8217;m choosing to write from where I am &#8212; mid-integration, post-crisis, still finding language for what&#8217;s changed. </p><p>These reflections are part of my <em>Navigating Crisis</em> series &#8212; how Nourished Leaders lead through uncertainty.</p></div><p>People keep asking how my mother is.</p><p>And I never know how to answer.</p><p>We&#8217;re no longer in the height of crisis &#8212; the alarms have quieted, the hospital room feels less urgent &#8212; but we&#8217;re also not &#8220;okay.&#8221; We&#8217;re somewhere in between: that strange <em>post-crisis liminal space</em> where reality hasn&#8217;t caught up to relief yet.</p><p>It&#8217;s like standing on a bridge after the fire. The worst is over, but the air still smells like smoke. You&#8217;re safe, technically. But you&#8217;re also shaken, singed, and unsure what&#8217;s next.</p><div><hr></div><h3><strong>The Language Problem of Crisis</strong></h3><p>When people ask <em>&#8220;How is she?&#8221;</em> &#8212; I freeze.<br>Because what do you say when &#8220;better&#8221; and &#8220;not better&#8221; are both true?</p><p>If I say she&#8217;s fine, I erase the complexity.<br>If I say she&#8217;s not, I risk reinforcing a story that isn&#8217;t the whole truth either.</p><p>The truth is that she&#8217;s <em>defying odds</em> &#8212; as she always has with sickle cell disease &#8212; yet the numbers still flag red.<br></p><p>We&#8217;ve left the emergency, but we haven&#8217;t reached ease.</p><p>And that&#8217;s where so many of us live after crisis: not in chaos, not in calm &#8212; but in the corridor between them.</p><div><hr></div><h3><strong>The Corridor Leaders Don&#8217;t Talk About</strong></h3><p>Leadership has its own version of this corridor.</p><p>It&#8217;s the moment after a major reorg, when the team is safe but disoriented.<br></p><p>After the layoffs, when the remaining employees look at you for direction &#8212; and you&#8217;re still catching your breath.<br></p><p>After the pitch that didn&#8217;t land, or the vision that almost fell apart, but somehow didn&#8217;t.</p><p>You&#8217;re expected to be grateful the fire&#8217;s out &#8212; and you are &#8212; but no one tells you how to lead when you&#8217;re still coughing on the smoke.</p><p>We often think leadership in crisis is about quick action. </p><p><strong>But </strong><em><strong>leadership after crisis</strong></em><strong> is about slow integration</strong>.<br></p><p>It&#8217;s about learning to breathe again without bracing for the next alarm.</p><div><hr></div><h3><strong>What &#8220;Well&#8221; Really Means</strong></h3><p>When I say my mom is well, I&#8217;m not talking about lab results.<br>I&#8217;m talking about <em>how she holds herself in the in-between.</em></p><p>She chooses wellness &#8212; not as denial, but as discipline.<br></p><p>She&#8217;s teaching me that <strong>the real crisis lies in the mind, never in the reality of the moment.</strong></p><blockquote><p><strong>The real crisis lies in the mind, never in the reality of the moment.</strong></p></blockquote><p>And that&#8217;s leadership too: to choose clarity when the outcome is still uncertain. </p><p>To define wellness &#8212; or stability, or success &#8212; as something deeper than circumstances.</p><div><hr></div><h3><strong>What Leaders Can Practice</strong></h3><p>If you&#8217;re leading through post-crisis recovery &#8212; at home, at work, or in your own body &#8212; here&#8217;s what helps me stay anchored:</p><ol><li><p><strong>Name the liminal.</strong> Say, &#8220;We&#8217;re not in crisis, but we&#8217;re not in calm either.&#8221; Language gives legitimacy to the in-between.</p></li><li><p><strong>Pause before projecting.</strong> Don&#8217;t rush to label things &#8220;fixed&#8221; or &#8220;broken.&#8221; They can simply be <em>becoming.</em></p></li><li><p><strong>Choose wellness as focus.</strong> Not because everything&#8217;s perfect, but because your focus directs your energy.</p></li><li><p><strong>Let integration take time.</strong> Healing isn&#8217;t linear. Neither is organizational recovery.</p></li><li><p><strong>Lead with tenderness.</strong> Others might still be breathing smoke too. Meet them where they are.</p></li></ol><div><hr></div><h3><strong>Closing Reflection</strong></h3><p>So when people ask, <em>&#8220;How&#8217;s your mom?&#8221;</em><br>Maybe the truest answer is this:</p><blockquote><p>&#8220;She&#8217;s in the space after the fire &#8212; still standing, still healing, still radiant.&#8221;</p></blockquote><p>And maybe that&#8217;s the answer for all of us learning to lead after the flames:<br></p><p>We are still standing.<br>We are still healing.<br>We are still radiant.</p><p><br><em>If this reflection resonated with you -Subscribe to The Nourished Leader for new essays on clarity, capacity, and courage.</em></p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://www.thenourishedleader.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://www.thenourishedleader.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Women To Know Wednesday: Erika Rosenthal]]></title><description><![CDATA[Leaders of leaders who are challenging the status quo and making a lasting impact.]]></description><link>https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/women-to-know-wednesday-erika-rosenthal</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/women-to-know-wednesday-erika-rosenthal</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Natalie R Legrand]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2025 17:57:06 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!VEE-!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Feac6a2cb-412e-43bf-9086-7835a55b797d_1080x1080.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="pullquote"><p>In August, I was honored as one of the <strong>50 Women to Know in North Carolina</strong>. I was so impressed by these leaders of leaders&#8212;women who are challenging the status quo and making a lasting impact in their communities. Over the next few months, I&#8217;ll be featuring some of their powerful voices here.</p></div><div id="youtube2-dbbLhmk-QnY" class="youtube-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;videoId&quot;:&quot;dbbLhmk-QnY&quot;,&quot;startTime&quot;:null,&quot;endTime&quot;:null}" data-component-name="Youtube2ToDOM"><div class="youtube-inner"><iframe src="https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/dbbLhmk-QnY?rel=0&amp;autoplay=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;enablejsapi=0" frameborder="0" loading="lazy" gesture="media" allow="autoplay; fullscreen" allowautoplay="true" allowfullscreen="true" width="728" height="409"></iframe></div></div><div><hr></div><h1>TL;DR</h1><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/erikarosenthal/">Erika Rosenthal</a>, recognized as a &#8220;Woman to Know in North Carolina for 2025,&#8221; shares her entrepreneurial journey spanning three distinct decades: working for Fortune 500 companies, building her own medical spa business, and now helping mid-market companies scale through her firm, Veritac Group.</p><p>Erika emphasizes the importance of self-care before caring for others&#8212;contrary to her generation&#8217;s &#8220;others first&#8221; mentality. She believes nourished leadership is about helping others succeed rather than personal accomplishments.</p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://www.thenourishedleader.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">The Nourished Leader is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div><p>Her key insight for women leaders is to overcome excessive self-criticism, which she describes as &#8220;dead weight&#8221; that hinders potential. When making high-stakes decisions, she recommends first finding clarity within yourself, then establishing common ground on the &#8220;what&#8221; and &#8220;why&#8221; before discussing the &#8220;how&#8221; with others.</p><p>Erika balances her professional life with being a mother of five adult children and a grandmother, finding fulfillment in this season of giving back and connecting with inspiring people.</p><div><hr></div><p><strong>Erika:</strong> I&#8217;m an entrepreneur at heart. I love seeing an opportunity and a need in the marketplace and trying to fill or solve that. I&#8217;ve made a very nonlinear career out of doing that.</p><p>My first decade was working for Fortune 500 companies. My second decade was building my own company, a medical spa that started in the 90s when we were still explaining what that was to the world, and growing that to multiple locations. I did that for a decade.</p><p>Now I&#8217;ve been helping other leaders for the last decade, helping them grow their businesses, which is what Veritac Group is. We help grow mid-market companies, help them scale and increase their revenue. I love this stage of life because I think for me it&#8217;s giving back and meeting so many incredible people, and that&#8217;s what really fuels me.</p><p>I&#8217;m also married and a mother of five adult children and one grandchild, so life is really full and good at this point.</p><div class="pullquote"><p><strong>What does leading nourished mean to you in this season of leadership?</strong></p></div><p><strong>Erika:</strong> It really means taking care of self and making sure that you&#8217;re investing in yourself so that you can do these other things. For my generation, it&#8217;s &#8220;take care of everybody else and then take care of yourself.&#8221; And that&#8217;s a fallacy.</p><p>I think that we&#8217;ve got to be in that equation of nourishing, of getting inspiration from others, of seeing others&#8217; grit and determination, of lending a helping hand and helping somebody up when they fall down, and just showing up in a different way. I think it&#8217;s less about what we accomplish and more about how we help others succeed.</p><div class="pullquote"><p><strong>When you say self, what does that mean to you?</strong></p></div><p><strong>Erika:</strong> That&#8217;s a really good point. Self is complex, Natalie. It&#8217;s all of the things that get in the way. Those little voices that say, &#8220;Oh, I&#8217;m not the best one for this. Maybe there are lots better people to talk to and women to know.&#8221; It&#8217;s that little voice of self-doubt, or the voice that wants to pivot and present something that is greater than what it actually is at the moment.</p><p>I think that&#8217;s just a huge waste of time, and it doesn&#8217;t serve ourselves or each other to do that. It&#8217;s about being real, being authentic. We are all putting one foot in front of the other at times. And how do you flourish? You keep that inspiration and you keep helping others.</p><p>The definition of a nourishing leader is probably going to be very different for each person. What does it mean for you? For me? Those are different things. Being able to define that and say what keeps us showing up and getting up every day when there are hurdles to overcome.</p><div class="pullquote"><p><strong>What&#8217;s one shift women in leadership must make to sustain themselves and shape the future of work?</strong></p></div><p><strong>Erika:</strong> I think that as women we tend to be very self-critical. We always see what we can do better, or we do a replay: How could I have handled that last meeting or that last interaction? There&#8217;s nothing wrong with self-reflection, but when it comes down to being overly critical of self and not celebrating the gains and where we&#8217;ve come, and not showing up as a servant leader asking what we can do to help others, then it&#8217;s easy to pick apart and be our own dead weight.</p><p>It&#8217;s like a big ball and chain that just slows us down from our potential if we give that voice too much credence. It&#8217;s about thanking that voice for being there and saying, &#8220;Okay, these are things I could do better next time. That&#8217;s good. I&#8217;m going to move on and these are my takeaways.&#8221;</p><p>I think the self-criticism is one of those things that we can do better with, especially when the stakes are high and you need to make clear, confident decisions.</p><div class="pullquote"><p><strong>How would you describe the way you make decisions, especially in high-stakes environments, especially when that self-critic is extremely loud?</strong></p></div><p><strong>Erika:</strong> It&#8217;s a great question. First, I think that I&#8217;m having the conversation. If I&#8217;ve got to make a decision and decide where to go, I need to decide that with myself first and be confident in that. I listen to all the inner critics because the higher the stakes, the more tension there is, and the more I think we can fall into a trap of looking for approval from others.</p><p>But when you know the right way to go, you can pause and listen to a different point of view. That&#8217;s important. But it doesn&#8217;t have to derail you. Or if you&#8217;re working with somebody else, say, &#8220;Okay, we&#8217;re acknowledging X, Y, and Z, and we want to get to this point. In light of that, how do we get there together? What are the steps that should be taken?&#8221;</p><p>I think inviting others to come together to reach a common goal is key. It&#8217;s finding the common ground and not trying to make an argument or a statement or seek approval because we&#8217;ve already been through that very critical piece.</p><p>If we&#8217;re breaking down something and saying, &#8220;Based on all the information I have in front of me, this feels like the best direction to go,&#8221; and then pausing and saying the what and the why before we even get to the how. Is there agreement in the what and the why? And then we&#8217;ll talk later about how we&#8217;re going to do that.</p><p>Find that common ground first and gain that agreement before proceeding any further. I think if we can take the time to do that, then we&#8217;re doing a service for ourselves and for others.</p><div><hr></div><p>&#10024; <strong>We&#8217;re just two weeks away!</strong> &#10024;<br>I&#8217;m both excited and a little nervous as we count down to the inaugural <strong>Nourished Leader Summit</strong>. I truly believe in what we&#8217;re creating&#8212;a space where women leaders can be replenished, challenged, and inspired.</p><p>If you haven&#8217;t gotten your ticket yet, now&#8217;s the time. <a href="#">Reserve your seat today &#8594;</a></p><p>&#10024; <em>Curious about who you&#8217;ll be learning alongside? 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To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[No Problems Just Tensions]]></title><description><![CDATA[22 days till launch!]]></description><link>https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/no-problems-just-tensions</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/no-problems-just-tensions</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Natalie R Legrand]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 16 Sep 2025 17:31:31 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/173775318/79aa0c368a46f07fb743fa8ff05632d0.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We are 22 days out from the inaugural <strong>Nourished Leader Summit.</strong></p><p>How am I doing? That&#8217;s a great question.</p><p>Anytime you take a leap of faith, step out in courage, and do something you&#8217;ve never done before&#8212;here&#8217;s what I tell myself, and what I tell other leaders:</p><p>There are no problems. Just tensions.</p><p>Seriously, I always start with that question: <em>Is this a problem to be solved, or a tension to be managed?</em></p><p>That&#8217;s one of the most critical questions a leader can ask themselves&#8212;especially when the stakes are high, when you&#8217;re feeling disoriented, and when you&#8217;re stepping outside your comfort zone.</p><p>Because here&#8217;s the thing: the higher you go in leadership, the less clear your view becomes.</p><p>So here&#8217;s what I want you to do: write it down. Give yourself the argument, and then say: <em>Yes, and&#8230;</em></p><p>Always come back to that question: <em>What&#8217;s happening here? Is it a problem to be solved, or a tension to be managed?</em></p><p>And if you haven&#8217;t yet accepted your invitation&#8212;or if you haven&#8217;t received one&#8212;to the <strong>Nourished Leader Summit</strong> on <strong>October 9th</strong> here in Charlotte, North Carolina, in the lovely District of NoDa, you need to get that yesterday.</p><p>Let me know. Reply back to this email, and I&#8217;ll make sure you&#8217;re in the door.</p><p>Bye for now.</p><p>&#8212;Natalie, and I am a Nourished Leader.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[No Bad Parts]]></title><description><![CDATA[Where Traditional Leadership Models Fail Us]]></description><link>https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/no-bad-parts</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/no-bad-parts</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Natalie R Legrand]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 05 Sep 2025 19:45:49 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!qfhw!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fe62e3588-782a-48d0-99b0-b4998068e6ff_2000x1428.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the greatest challenges of leadership&#8212;especially for women&#8212;is that we often compartmentalize or even demonize different parts of ourselves. We praise the strategic, polished, high-performing parts, while criticizing or suppressing the vulnerable, fearful, or reactive ones.</p><p>But what if wholeness means welcoming <em>all</em> of it? What if, as Dr. Richard Schwartz writes in <em>No Bad Parts</em>, there are truly no bad parts within us&#8212;only parts that are trying (sometimes desperately) to protect us?</p><p>This week, I met a part of myself I call <em>Survival Natalie.</em> She&#8217;s different from <em>Strategist Natalie,</em> who loves structure and vision. Survival Natalie shows up when I feel under pressure, when the stakes are high, and when fear tries to run the show. She&#8217;s reactive, envious, hyper-critical&#8212;and yet, she&#8217;s also trying to keep me alive, safe, and tethered to what she knows.</p><p>Being a Nourished Leader means recognizing these parts, listening to them with curiosity instead of shame, and learning how to integrate them so we can lead from wholeness. Because if I can learn to work with all the parts of me, I can better hold space for the many parts that live in others, too.</p><p>Below is an excerpt from my own journal this week, where I reflected on what it might look like to stop resisting Survival Natalie and instead let her become my teacher.</p><blockquote><p><strong>Journal Entry - Survival as Teacher</strong></p><p>I&#8217;ve always resented survival mode. It feels like the thief of my peace, the constant shadow reminding me that I am one bill, one diagnosis, one wrong turn away from collapse. </p><p>But today I&#8217;m entertaining a different possibility: maybe survival isn&#8217;t my enemy at all. Maybe - she&#8217;s a teacher I&#8217;ve overlooked.</p><p>What if survival isn&#8217;t here to shame me for not being further along, but to sharpen my instincts for when the path isn&#8217;t clear? What if she isn&#8217;t just the pressure on my chest, but the voice that says, <em>keep breathing, keep moving, keep noticing</em>?</p><p>I know survival mode is temporary, yet instead of resisting it - perhaps  the invitation is to walk with her long enough to learn what she has to teach me: courage in the face of uncertainty, discernment when the noise grows too loud, and humility to remember I am still becoming.</p></blockquote><p></p><p><strong>Why does this matter?</strong><br>Traditional leadership models often demand that we leave parts of ourselves at the door. They prize the polished, rational, &#8220;productive&#8221; side of us, while dismissing the messy, fearful, or vulnerable parts. But in reality, those parts never disappear&#8212;they just go underground and show up in ways we don&#8217;t always recognize.</p><p>Did you know that research shows leaders who practice self-integration (acknowledging and working with their different parts) build <em>45% more trust</em> within their teams than those who lead from suppression and compartmentalization? </p><p>Wholeness isn&#8217;t just personal&#8212;it ripples into culture, performance, and collective wellbeing.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!qfhw!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fe62e3588-782a-48d0-99b0-b4998068e6ff_2000x1428.png" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" 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And that&#8217;s what <em>leading nourished</em> is all about</p><p>Leadership is evolving&#8212;and so must we. </p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://form.jotform.com/252355332566155&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Request Your Invitation&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://form.jotform.com/252355332566155"><span>Request Your Invitation</span></a></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Women To KNOW in North Carolina ]]></title><description><![CDATA[&#10024; I&#8217;m honored to share that I&#8217;ve been named one of the Women to KNOW in North Carolina.]]></description><link>https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/women-to-know-in-north-carolina</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/women-to-know-in-north-carolina</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Natalie R Legrand]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2025 09:30:58 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!i4JR!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ffa91e1fb-006f-4116-866b-6ea10233eae1_1563x1563.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#10024; I&#8217;m honored to share that I&#8217;ve been named one of the Women to KNOW in North Carolina.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!i4JR!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ffa91e1fb-006f-4116-866b-6ea10233eae1_1563x1563.png" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" 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To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div><p>Standing alongside 49 extraordinary women &#8212; leaders who are shaping businesses, communities, and futures across our state &#8212; is both humbling and inspiring. I&#8217;m especially grateful Sarah Benken and The KNOW Women organization for the honor and for hosting an incredible event this past weekend.</p><p>At first, I&#8217;ll be honest: I had complicated feelings about this recognition. But as I sat with it, I realized something important &#8212; being <em>known</em> matters. Especially for women who are out here shaping the future, challenging the status quo of leadership, and carrying so much both seen and unseen.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!SsCw!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F0ccda761-e6a3-4531-a69a-b48f78374345_4024x6048.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!SsCw!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F0ccda761-e6a3-4531-a69a-b48f78374345_4024x6048.jpeg 424w, 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To not only <em>make them known</em>, but to encourage, connect, and celebrate one another as we lead in extraordinary ways.</p><p>Our attendees are <strong>trailblazing women leaders</strong> who hold senior positions across industries, from global corporations to non-profits. These decision-makers are responsible for steering their organizations through the storm of political, economic, and technological uncertainty&#8212;making bold, courageous decisions to drive change and seize growth opportunities.</p><p>In times when many falter or hunker down, these women rise to the challenge, navigating complex landscapes with clarity, confidence, and courage.</p><p>They are the <strong>leaders' leaders</strong>, shaping strategy, building resilient teams, and paving the way for sustainable growth.</p><p>Massive shout out to <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/ckayscue/">Cyndi Aysecue</a>, Director of Talent Management at Dentsply Sirona for being my plus one. </p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" 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Request your invite<a href="https://form.jotform.com/252355332566155"> here</a></p><p></p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://www.thenourishedleader.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">The Nourished Leader is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Care is Expensive]]></title><description><![CDATA[Last week, I had the privilege of facilitating a two-day strategy activation for a company rolling out a new set of core values.]]></description><link>https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/care-is-expensive</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/care-is-expensive</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Natalie R Legrand]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2025 21:05:03 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!iiIL!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F32372901-2c49-45d4-9e44-0d3b9b85bced_2000x1428.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last week, I had the privilege of facilitating a two-day strategy activation for a company rolling out a new set of core values.</p><p>It was a room full of senior leaders. Smart, accomplished, deeply committed people. We were digging into the company&#8217;s evolving values and what it means to actually embody them&#8212;not just as aspirational posters on a wall, but in the way they show up for their teams, patients, and each other.</p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://www.thenourishedleader.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">The Nourished Leader is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div><p>At one point in our session, we landed on the value of <strong>care</strong>.</p><p>And without overthinking it, I said out loud:</p><blockquote><p>&#8220;Care is expensive.&#8221;</p></blockquote><p>I got a room full of blank stares.</p><p>That phrase&#8212;borrowed from cultural lingo that circulates more on social media than in boardrooms&#8212;didn&#8217;t immediately land. But I stood by it.</p><p>And later in the day, during a discussion about <strong>psychological safety, presence, and apathy</strong>, it started to click.</p><p>We were talking about how apathy shows up in teams&#8212;not because people are lazy, but because they&#8217;re <strong>overstretched</strong>, <strong>undervalued</strong>, or have lost trust in the system around them. And I asked again:</p><blockquote><p>&#8220;Now do you understand what I mean when I say care is expensive?&#8221;</p></blockquote><p>This time, I got a room full of nods.</p><div><hr></div><h3>So what does it mean to say &#8220;care is expensive?&#8221;</h3><p>It means that caring isn&#8217;t <em>cheap</em>.<br>It costs you something.</p><p>It requires <strong>time, presence, vulnerability, emotional labor, clarity, and the courage to act</strong>.</p><p>It means choosing <em>what&#8217;s human</em> over what&#8217;s easy.<br>It means doing more than just the job&#8212;you&#8217;re tending to people.</p><p>And in high-stakes systems like healthcare, leadership, or business, that kind of tending is a risk.</p><p>You risk slowing things down.</p><p>You risk being misunderstood.</p><p>You risk exhausting yourself.</p><p>And yet&#8230; it&#8217;s the very thing that creates trust.<br>It&#8217;s the very thing that builds the culture people <em>want</em> to stay in.</p><div class="pullquote"><p><br>Care requires openness. Trust requires surrender. Courage requires risk.</p></div><p><strong>Care requires emotional and spiritual labor.</strong><br>These are not soft skills. They are strenuous forms of <em>leadership work</em>.</p><p>Lastly, </p><p><strong>It puts your identity on the line.</strong><br>To embody care, trust, or courage is to make a statement about <em>who you are</em>&#8212;and to risk what others will assume in response.</p><div><hr></div><h4>So why do it?</h4><p>Because <strong>these are the currencies</strong> of the leadership we <em>say</em> we want.<br>They are how we build trust.<br>They are how we shift culture.<br>They are how we <strong>nourish the future</strong></p><div><hr></div><h3>What we&#8217;re really talking about: capacity.</h3><p>The truth is, most leaders <em>want</em> to care.<br>But many simply don&#8217;t have the <strong>capacity</strong> to do it in a sustainable way.</p><p>And this is where burnout breeds apathy&#8212;and apathy erodes culture.</p><p>We treat apathy like a personal flaw, when it&#8217;s often a <strong>capacity signal</strong>.<br>It tells us something&#8217;s off. That the system can no longer hold the weight of its own values.</p><div><hr></div><h3>Why The Nourished Leader Exists</h3><p>This conversation about care and capacity is at the heart of The Nourished Leader&#8212;and also at the heart of our upcoming Fall 2025 Summit.</p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://nourishedleadership.com/nourishedleadersummit2025/&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;The Nourished Leader Summit&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://nourishedleadership.com/nourishedleadersummit2025/"><span>The Nourished Leader Summit</span></a></p><p>We don&#8217;t just talk about <strong>courage</strong>, <strong>clarity</strong>, and <strong>capacity</strong> because they sound good.<br>We name them because they are the core <strong>nutrients of real leadership</strong>&#8212;the kind that actually <em>sustains</em> people in systems that were never built for their thriving.</p><p>So yes&#8212;care is expensive.<br>So is trust.<br>So is courage.</p><p>But it&#8217;s also the <em>only currency</em> that can build the kind of leadership our world needs right now.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!iiIL!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F32372901-2c49-45d4-9e44-0d3b9b85bced_2000x1428.png" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!iiIL!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F32372901-2c49-45d4-9e44-0d3b9b85bced_2000x1428.png 424w, 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To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[When Wisdom Comes Too Soon: The Weight Before the Walk]]></title><description><![CDATA[What no one tells you about growing into what you already know]]></description><link>https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/when-wisdom-comes-too-soon-the-weight</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/when-wisdom-comes-too-soon-the-weight</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Natalie R Legrand]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2025 13:23:42 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!VEE-!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Feac6a2cb-412e-43bf-9086-7835a55b797d_1080x1080.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There&#8217;s a particular ache that comes with being wise before your time.<br>It looks like insight without context.<br>It feels like seeing everything and still being unsure how to move.<br></p><p>And for many women, especially those raised to carry responsibility early, wisdom wasn&#8217;t just a gift&#8212;it was an expectation.</p><p>We were told to <em>know better</em> before we were given the space to <em>grow through it.</em><br>And so many of us are asking:</p><blockquote><p><em>Why am I still afraid to act, when I know so much?</em></p></blockquote><p>Let&#8217;s name it together.</p><div><hr></div><h3>The Shadow Side of Wisdom</h3><p>We tend to praise wisdom as a virtue&#8212;and it is. But few talk about its shadow:</p><blockquote><p><strong>Wisdom without experience can become paralysis.</strong><br><strong>Wisdom without rhythm can become apathy.</strong><br><strong>Wisdom without permission can become silence.</strong></p></blockquote><p>Especially when we&#8217;ve been taught to &#8220;know better,&#8221; but not supported in how to move with that knowing. We become afraid to fail. We learn to seek more information when we actually need more space to learn by <em>doing.</em> We intellectualize our insight instead of embodying it.</p><div><hr></div><h3>Why Does This Happen?</h3><p>This experience isn&#8217;t personal failure. It&#8217;s the result of layered conditions&#8212;many of them generational and cultural:</p><ol><li><p><strong>We were parented by women in survival.</strong><br>Our mothers had wisdom, but not always the safety to live it. Now they pass it to us&#8212;early, often, and sometimes urgently&#8212;hoping we won&#8217;t have to suffer what they did.</p></li><li><p><strong>We were emotionally initiated before we were ready.</strong><br>Whether through trauma, loss, or hyper-responsibility, we became the &#8220;wise one,&#8221; &#8220;the old soul,&#8221; or &#8220;the strong one&#8221;&#8212;long before we had the support to carry those roles.</p></li><li><p><strong>We were praised for knowing, not for trying.</strong><br>Perfectionism and hyper-intellectualism became our safety nets. We learned to seek more wisdom when we actually needed more practice at <em>living.</em></p></li><li><p><strong>We see deeply&#8212;but haven&#8217;t always been believed.</strong><br>As visionaries, healers, or spiritually attuned women, we see potential before it&#8217;s visible to others. But when no one listens, it feels like: <em>What&#8217;s the point of being wise if no one receives it?</em></p></li></ol><div><hr></div><h3>Wisdom vs. Discernment: What&#8217;s the Difference?</h3><p><strong>Wisdom</strong> is deep, reflective understanding. It holds the long view.<br>It&#8217;s the knowing that comes from pattern, pain, purpose, and time.</p><blockquote><p><em>Wisdom is the mountaintop view.</em></p></blockquote><p>But <strong>discernment</strong> is a daily practice. It&#8217;s the capacity to sift through complexity and choose what&#8217;s right <em>right now.</em></p><blockquote><p><em>Discernment is the trail guide.</em><br>It says: &#8220;What&#8217;s aligned for me in this moment, in this season?&#8221;</p></blockquote><p>Discernment is the skill that allows us to apply wisdom with courage&#8212;not just reverence.</p><div><hr></div><h3>The Invitation: Don&#8217;t Just Know&#8212;Live.</h3><p>Here&#8217;s the truth that many of us are reckoning with:</p><blockquote><p><em>You can be wise and still be new.<br>You can know deeply and still be building the trust to act.</em></p></blockquote><p>Your wisdom isn&#8217;t wrong&#8212;it&#8217;s just early.<br>You don&#8217;t need to <em>prove</em> you&#8217;re grown. You need the space to <strong>grow into what&#8217;s already true.</strong></p><p>And maybe the scariest truth of all:</p><blockquote><p><em>Sometimes what you don&#8217;t know is the best thing for you.</em></p></blockquote><p>Because it gives you room to be present, messy, curious, and human.</p><div><hr></div><h3>One Last Reminder:</h3><blockquote><p><strong>Trust is built in rhythm.</strong><br>Not in knowing everything.<br>Not in avoiding mistakes.<br>But in moving, listening, adjusting, and moving again.</p></blockquote><p>So if you&#8217;re sitting in a season where the weight of your wisdom feels heavier than your confidence&#8212;pause. Breathe. Move anyway. </p><p>Trust the rhythm more than the result.</p><p>You are not immature.<br>You are in season.<br>And that is more than enough.</p><div><hr></div><h2>&#128227; A Note From Me</h2><p>If you&#8217;ve noticed a bit of quiet from me lately&#8212;it&#8217;s because I&#8217;ve been deep in the rhythm of <em>building</em>. Behind the scenes, I&#8217;ve been pouring my energy into preparing for the <strong>launch</strong> of something I believe will shift the way we gather, learn, and lead:</p><p><strong>The Nourished Leader Fall 2025 Summit</strong><br>&#128467;&#65039; October 9th | Charlotte, NC</p><p>This is a <em>private, invite-only</em> gathering for high-performing women ready to lead from clarity, courage, and capacity&#8212;not depletion. </p><p>If you loved what unfolded on International Women&#8217;s Day, then what&#8217;s coming in October will move you even more.</p><p>We are currently finalizing invitations and preparing for the official launch&#8212;so you&#8217;ll begin to hear more soon, especially as we approach the 60-day mark.</p><p>&#8212;Natalie</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Root Bound]]></title><description><![CDATA[What My Peace Lily Taught Me About Depletion, Capacity & Leadership]]></description><link>https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/root-bound</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.thenourishedleader.com/p/root-bound</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Natalie R Legrand]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 21 Jul 2025 23:52:23 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!VEE-!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Feac6a2cb-412e-43bf-9086-7835a55b797d_1080x1080.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last week, I bought a peace lily. She was beautiful, radiant, full of life. But within 24 hours, she collapsed.</p><p>I&#8217;d placed her in the sun &#8212; not realizing peace lilies prefer the shade. Thinking I was doing the right thing, I overexposed her. The next day, her leaves fell limp. So I watered her. She perked up. Crisis averted &#8212; or so I thought.</p><p>But the day after that, she collapsed again.</p><p>And I got frustrated. I told my mom she could take the plant because clearly, <em>this peace lily didn&#8217;t like me</em>. I was doing everything I knew to do, and still, she was wilting.</p><p>Then my friend said:<br><em>"She&#8217;s probably root bound."</em></p><p>And just like that, the metaphor rooted itself in my soul.</p><div><hr></div><h3>Root Bound = Depleted</h3><p>If you&#8217;ve never heard of the term <em>root bound</em>, it means this: the plant has outgrown its container. Its roots are tangled, tight, and there&#8217;s no room for new growth. No matter how much water or light you give it, it stays depleted &#8212; not because the nourishment isn&#8217;t there, but because there&#8217;s no <em>capacity</em> to receive it.</p><p>Read that again:<br><strong>Depletion isn&#8217;t always about lack. Sometimes it&#8217;s about limits.</strong></p><p>And this is exactly what the plant revealed to me:<br><strong>I wasn&#8217;t failing her. Her container was.</strong></p><div><hr></div><h3>The Same Is True for Women in Midlife Leadership</h3><p>How many of us are doing all the &#8220;right things&#8221; &#8212; hydrating, meditating, journaling, leading, stretching &#8212; and still feel like we&#8217;re <em>wilting</em>?</p><p>We are not undernourished because we&#8217;re not trying.<br>We&#8217;re depleted because we&#8217;ve outgrown the systems, identities, and roles that once held us.</p><blockquote><p>We&#8217;re leading from containers that are too small for our vision.<br>We&#8217;re operating with tools that can&#8217;t hold the weight of our lived wisdom.<br>We&#8217;re still expected to produce, perform, and push &#8212; even when our roots are screaming for expansion.</p></blockquote><p>And the scary part? Depletion doesn&#8217;t always look like burnout.<br>It often looks like competence. Smiling. Leading well.<br>Until one day&#8230; you fall over. Just like the plant.</p><div><hr></div><p><strong> This Is Why The Nourished Leader Summit Exists</strong></p><p>This October, we&#8217;re gathering for a summit designed to name &#8212; and transform &#8212; this exact experience.</p><p><strong>The Nourished Leader Summit is a live, transformational, invitation-only experience designed to address one of the most urgent leadership challenges of our time: how to lead without depletion.</strong></p><p>This year&#8217;s theme is simple, powerful, and overdue:<br>&#128073;&#127997; <strong>Depletion.</strong></p><p>We&#8217;re naming what so many of us have been carrying in silence:</p><ul><li><p>The weight of invisible labor.</p></li><li><p>The quiet betrayals we&#8217;ve endured in leadership.</p></li><li><p>The exhaustion of staying small when our roots are ready to grow.</p></li></ul><p>We&#8217;re not fixing anyone.<br>We&#8217;re not bypassing the pain.</p><p>We&#8217;re creating the space &#8212; the <em>bigger pot</em> &#8212; for your leadership to finally breathe, expand, and receive again.</p><div><hr></div><h3>So I&#8217;ll Leave You With This:</h3><blockquote><p>Where in your life are you still pouring water into something that can&#8217;t absorb it?<br>What would it mean to repot your leadership &#8212; and reclaim your capacity?</p></blockquote><p>Your collapse is not a failure.<br>Your depletion is not your fault.<br>Your body, your spirit, your calling &#8212; they&#8217;re asking for <em>more room</em>.</p><p>Come be repotted with us this October.<br><strong>Come see what happens when you no longer carry it alone.</strong></p><p>More details about the summit are coming next week. For now, just know this:<br>You are not dramatic.<br>You are not too much.<br>You are root bound &#8212; and ready to grow.</p><p>I am a Nourished Leader.<br>And so are you.</p><p>Natalie</p>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>